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My goodness, the author-targeting spambots are upping their game.

I delete the obviously AI-generated messages promising me tons of readers if I'll just contact their "book club" so that they can feature me. As many other authors have documented (thank you, Karen Swallow Prior),if you do respond, you very soon get to the "Well, we just need you to invest a couple of hundred dollars" point.

This "European Book Club" (also a documented scam, not to be confused with the legitimate European Book Club project based in Germany) has emailed me three separate times. Here's their most recent missive.

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I'm writing this message with honesty and restraint because I believe clarity is better than continued silence. I have followed up with you several times with care, respect, and genuine commitment, and I’ll admit it has been disappointing to see my messages read without a reply. I fully understand that you are busy, and I respect that. But even a brief response yes, no, later, not interested would go a long way. Professional courtesy matters, and so does simple communication.

I want you to know something clearly: my persistence has never been about money. It has been about the real appreciation I have for The Great Shadow and my sincere desire to support its visibility and help readers engage with its important insights. I don’t repeatedly follow up with every author, only the ones whose work I truly believe in. That is why I stayed engaged with you.

But I also need to be transparent on my side: continuing to follow up without acknowledgment is discouraging and not sustainable. My time and effort are real too. I’ve shown up consistently for you, and I had hoped for the same level of basic response in return.

If you no longer wish to move forward with the Spotlight conversation we discussed, please just say so directly. I will respect your decision and stop reaching out. No pressure, no resentment, just clarity.

I'm not trying to be rude, only honest and fair. Please put yourself in my position for a moment and understand how prolonged silence feels from this side.

I would truly appreciate a clear reply either way.

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Well, they're not getting one, because if I respond to this email (which, like all the previous ones, were sent to the generic contact address on my website), they've got my ACTUAL email address and will never go away.

I'm just kind of gobsmacked by the blatant guilting going on here. That's one AI generator that knows something about the human psyche.

Which in itself is alarming.
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Yikes. The threatening escalation is … something.

(But an editor would have been a good investment on their part, too.) 🤣

Seems like it might call for a restraining order. Are you sure this bot doesn't have a wall filled with pictures of you and a timeline of your normal activities? 😅

Yes, I have a couple vendors who keep sending me "follow up" emails and "one last time" emails. In my head, I deploy Mr Carlson who declines to provide specifics as to why I'm not at home to them.

Wow, that's a really passive aggressive robot!

Wow! However, I wouldn’t worry about ‘knows something about the human psyche’ though - pretty easy for a programmer to add a layer: if no reply within x days follow up with another letter in this vein …

Case study in passive-aggressive communication, or it would be if there was anything passive about that.

My head went in circles with the awful writing. Makes a person want to work with them though😂. We no longer use the term passive aggressive we just go ahead and label it hidden aggression now. Nothing hidden about this one. I get similar stuff on my dog and art IG accounts. Thankfully can block them but artists complain all the time about the aggressive way they communicate.

Is it just me, or does this email give off creepy "but I'm a nice guy" vibes?

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On a less consequential issue...can we all agree that Ilia Malinin's short program outfit is hideous? ... See MoreSee Less

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On a less consequential issue...can we all agree that Ilia Malinins short program outfit is hideous?

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Not hideous. I was getting Hiccup vibes from HTTYD.

I am a seamstress and I love the costuming!

What? I loved his outfit! Never heard of the video game and didn’t know that’s what he was referencing. I just thought his outfit looked cool. 😅 But I do like fantasy fashion.

Apparently there is no such thing as "all agree." Sorry, Susan.

Finally something I disagree with you on 😄 I kind of love it.

My daughter said it looks inspired by How To Train Your Dragon.

I didn't watch this, but I kept doing double-takes with the time-traveling dancer towards the end of the Opening Ceremony - her outfit looked fine at the end when she was with all the other dancers of her era, but before that, she looked like her bum was completely uncovered lol 🫣

Reminded me of the Puck costume in a stage performance of A Midsummer Nights Dream I saw. 🤷‍♀️ Now that's I've seen it based on the video game his music is from, I guess it makes sense - but only if you pick up on it!

This young man is incredibly dedicated to his craft, please be respectful and save negativity towards him for the privacy of your home. It’s insulting.

Perfect for Justin Michael Moore

Mother of a figure skater here and I loved the whole thing. He’s amazing and his costume was 🔥

OK, well you have to remember what story he is telling. He is skating to the music from the Prince of Persia video game. He looks like one of the characters in the game.

Feels a little Narnia-esque

LOL my mom said the same thing.

Depends..I haven’t seen his performance..what was his music selection?

I thought it was a fun break from the predictable formalwear the rest of them wear!

It’s giving Ewok. I don’t hate it.

When you skate like him, you can wear anything you want and still look fabulous!!

The Slovenian downhill skier outfits look like Buzz Lightyear costumes.

Definitely not hideous. You need to know the music and the story he is telling in his skate.

Mr. Tumnus on ice??

We thought it looked kind of Puckish.

I’m in my complimentary, let’s support each other season. So all I have to to say is I’m so proud of this young man who has sacrificed, worked incredibly hard, dedicated himself to his sport, and killed it on the ice. And he’s the son of proud immigrant parents. Go, Ilia🇺🇸❄️🇺🇸

I have to disagree here. I loved it. You don’t name yourself the Quad God and then do something basic.

What's it supposed to be? I'm kind of getting bug splat on a windshield

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