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After a quick business trip to NYC, I am safely on the train from Penn Station to Richmond and have escaped the city...having navigated the Taylor Swift wedding setup (pure insanity), the World Cup crowds, the Fourth of July crowds, and a whole lot of patrolling police.

Possibly this was not the greatest week for a quick business trip to NYC via Penn Station.
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After my last couple of posts (hey, mandatory vaccines and Bible readings, what could go wrong?), I’m going to mount my soapbox for a brief rant.

I am so weary of getting the following response, which I got on Facebook, on Twitter, and even on Substack, plus by email. This response takes various forms, but here’s the gist of it:

“You’re completely wrong about vaccines [or about teaching the Bible in Texas schools], and although we’ve used your curricula for years, I am now going get rid of them because I can’t trust you.”

This is one of the most destructive aspects of the tribalism that has taken over so much of our national conversation. It’s the intellectual equivalent of “If you don’t have a U.S. passport, you are an enemy of our country.””

I am very appreciative of those of you who’ve posted disagreements while remaining civil. “You’re wrong about this issue because of the following considerations” is always a worthwhile stance. “You obviously know nothing about history or patriotism and so I will shun you” is useless.

Think it through, people. Do you *really* believe that you have nothing to learn (about grammar, say, or ancient history, or how to write an essay) from someone who posts a take about vaccine mandates that you disagree with?

If so, you live in an impoverished world. I have learned tremendous amounts from writers and historians and, yes, even podcasters with whom I have serious disagreements. That’s because we live in a complex and complicated world where multiple strands of thought—about liberty and civic responsibility, about the most faithful way to practice our beliefs, about how to be responsible for our health—intertwine.

When I was a young reader, and voraciously reading every book I could get my hands on, my mother gave up policing the content. She told me: If you read something and you’re have a question about it, or it makes you feel uneasy, turn the page down and we’ll talk about it when you’re done.

She didn’t say: Throw the book down and never read anything by that author again.

On my morning run today, I listened to a conversation between Ezra Klein, a most definitely left-leaning opinion writer at the New York Times, and Chris Rufo of the Manhattan Institute, an architect of the anti-DEI policies of the current administration. They agreed on very little. (Maybe 10% of the issues brought up.) They argued vigorously, sometimes speaking over each other. They constantly said, “I don’t think that’s an accurate framing of the issue” and “I think that’s a little unfair, because…” and “Let me rephrase the question in another way.” What they didn’t say? “Your so-called expertise is a joke.” “I’m not going to listen to you any more.” “Clearly, you are an idiot.”

Much of the responsibility for our current reprehensible level of public discourse can be chalked up to politicians who insist on referring to their political opponents with morally weighted words such as “evil”, “sick”, and “enemies of our country.” But too many people have embraced this method of communicating with glee.

When I taught the Bible as Literature course at William & Mary, I usually got a solid 80% of student comments that were along the lines of, “Pretty good course. I learned a lot.” But I would get 10% of comments that said “This professor is obviously a rabid Christian who is trying to convert me” and 10% that said, “This professor is obviously an atheistic liberal who is trying to destroy my faith.”

I always figured that the breakdown meant I was doing a decent job of presenting the material without excessive bias. (We all have bias. We should aim to not be excessive.) But I have a feeling that, were I to teach the course in the same way today, I’d get a 50/50 split. That’s how we’ve been teaching our young people to respond.

I hope that we don’t stay here.
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I have great respect for your work even though I disagree with some of it. But I recall once reading about your decision to exclude Doug Wilson's quotes from later editions of the Well Trained Mind due to his other statements that, if I remember right, you considered misogynistic. No doubt you made the right decision based on your views, but I don't think his actual statements on education were in question. He was removed because of other publicly stated views. I think this post does a very good job of identifying a particular Ill in our society. But I somehow feel also that there are times when we trust certain sources for our homeschool because we know we are in alignment with the author on things that are important to us. I think using a school book author to teach my children is a different kind of decision from 'can I learn from this book ' Although the vitriol from your critics is quite unnecessary. I appreciate your point and can only imagine what it's been like to receive the online criticism you've had to take over the years. But to offer to teach history to kids does seem to raise the bar when it comes to ideological comparability.

If we’re attempting to educate our children in the classical method (which many of your followers are), we need to apply the same standards to ourselves. I just finished a couple days of refresher training on the core tenets of classical education so that I can lead my son’s Gr 9 homeschool class this fall. Among the core principles are asking thoughtful questions, making comparisons, looking for relationships, thoughtfully crafting arguments, defining terms, and having respectful debate and discourse. In other words, using critical thinking skills as we practice the arts of dialectic and rhetoric. Maybe we as the parents can try using these skills ourselves when we come across something we don’t agree with? 🤔

I appreciate your comment Susan. It helps me to stay civil when confronted with opposing views. I really want to meet somewhere in the middle because I’m so tired of the anger but, getting to the middle can be like walking through Dante’s Inferno! By the way, would you mind if I asked you what podcast you were listening to on your morning run? I might like to subscribe.

I appreciate the modeling you are offering for civil discussion and disagreement of ideas. Simply offering it up in a public space will do some good, I hope. Particularly since you are clearly reaching many minds. Thank you, by the way, for the work you have done in creating curriculum. I relied on it as a novice homeschooler as my lifeline. The booklists by grade were beyond helpful. The grammar made my sixth grader cry but she is beautifully articulate at 20 and I can barely hold a discussion without seeing parts of my points in diagram form. The last big thank you is for the WTM Academy during COVID it kept us all connected and afloat academically.

So fun fact, I distinctly remember learning the concept ‘everyone has bias, we all have an axe to grind, but it’s only a problem if you think you don’t’ from your Bible as Lit course. It has served me well both in my writing and what I choose to read. So thank you for that. I feel like part of why it’s so hard to have civil discourse (besides the internet and other usual suspects) is that it’s easy to conflate ‘being civil’ with ‘being nice.’ And there’s a lot of justifiable disdain towards being nice nowadays… smiling and not rocking the boat often genuinely enables people’s prejudices. But one can be civil and still call other people out when you think they’re in the wrong. One can be civil and still say ‘let’s talk about that subject, but not right now because your view actively hurts other people in the room.’

I am very impressed that you can listen to intense political debate on your morning run and not have it ruin your day. 😂Thanks, Susan, for having the courage to rant and call us all to our responsibility to civility.

The Great Shadow is the best book I’ve read all year! Pediatric NP here. Keep up the good work!

I followed you because I like your curriculum. Turns out I enjoy your posts too. Keep up the drama. 😆

Welcome to the current homeschool environment that claims conservatism but acts like the world with their vitriol and cancel culture behavior. Personally i was scared away from your materials by hard right homeschoolers for years. But when nothing else worked i gave it a try and Story of the World is everything we were looking for those 14 years. Then i heard you speak onna podcast i listen to and agreed with everything you said. I enjoy your posts greatly. I don't agree with everything at times and that is ok. I am working hard in my new exvangelical life to be ok with other opinions. I am also trying to glean from those opinions so i can learn and grow even in disagreement. Sadly none of that was allowed in our past evangelical life.

Do you think people should be forcibly vaccinated? I missed that post.

I've talked people out of throwing out your curriculum. We probably share many concerns – the decline of public discourse, growing distrust of institutions and experts, and even the (seeming) paranoia of some people I'm politically sympathetic to. What I struggle with is that you seem to write about political issues that antagonise the right while rarely addressing those that would similarly challenge the left. Whether intentional or not, that perceived imbalance inevitably fuels tribalism. One side continually feels scrutinised by your Facebook rants.

Any human being whom we give absolute trust will inevitably fall from the pedestal. That happened to me recently with an author I had read, enjoyed and--yes, trusted implicitly--for years. This person confessed to years of a sinful relationship. Books written during that time suddenly seemed icky. I haven't discarded them yet, and perhaps the time will come when I can reread them. The issue in this case was confessed sin, clear moral failure, and yet I remind myself that this sin doesn't wipe out all of this author's work. At the other extreme, I've had to recognize value in people I deeply disagree with. Maybe that theologian's doctrine or that writer's experience seem off-base, but if I truly believe that no one sees things perfectly, I can look for alignment on the key doctrines of faith and be more open to different perspectives. It seems unwise and unsound to take the position that different interpretations of Scripture or its application warrant brushing the dust off your feet..

Oh my, yes. We are in the most ill-mannered, small-minded era. I’m fascinated by differences in opinion and love to hear all perspectives. It’s quite sad that our children are seeing such zero tolerance ways of communicating.

This post popped up in my feed. I read it. I liked it. Though your position on teaching the Bible in Texas and vaccine mandates wasn't relevant to me liking this particular post, I was curious. So I looked up what you'd written on those things too. I like them also. Thank you. It's nice to read sanity now and again.

I always ask- do we think iron sharpening iron is supposed to be a painless process? We play tug of war across the circle of ideas and then get mad that there are people actually pulling the other end of the rope. 🙃 The result is that we don’t know that there is much in common in the middle of the circle- refusing to engage means you don’t know where anyone else’s circle is, and leaves you to assume their ideas are all alien.

I think you’ve got it wrong about vaccines, but I love you and your curriculum anyways.

What's hilarious is that it used to be the other way around--about twenty years ago it was the liberals saying you were too conservative to be trusted.

Just this week Randy Fine (US Rep from Florida) said he didn’t come to work with Democrats but to beat them. And this seems to be the prevailing attitude in our government right now. People can’t even have civil discourse, of course they won’t figure out how to work together. It’s so frustrating.

Love your stuff. You have no idea how relieved I was when I discovered that you were as reasonable, empathetic, logical, and articulate in your contemporary viewpoints as you are in your historical writings. I’m almost certainly still to the political “left” of you, but that doesn’t make you the kind of person that so many on the political “right” are (or have become in the last decade). I continue to use and recommend your work, and I think we’d have a great chat if we ever ran across each other one day.

Hmm, never understood the mentality of this. Why throw the baby out with the bath water? I don’t have to agree with every point of a person for said person to have valuable information. End of story. For the record, I do disagree with you on one point vehemently and agree on the other point moderately. That’s okay! I’m a thinking individual and can take the awesomeness along with the other. Maturity, people. We can still all be friends!

I think we can all disagree with many issues, but forcing opinions on our bodies is hitting below the belt. It harms and hurts.

Hilariously, not all, but some of those people absolutely still use your stuff despite their bellicosity and I like to imagine them resentfully reciting the memory work from First Language Lessons 😆.

I used to love when someone disagreed with me. It made me open to alternative thought and expanded my mind. Now I keep my mouth shut as much as possible because it’s a fight on their part. At times I remind myself that two things can be correct but with those of closed minds there is only one correct, theirs. When I was schooling my son who was also a book a day reader I gave up reading things first 🤣. I started having him read things I totally disagreed with or disliked. Then I’d ask him what he thought and at times I’d cringe at his response. That’s what I wanted though, his own perspective to come out in a complete thought. In therapy there’s the phrase we can agree to disagree. We’ve lost that and I think it’s forever.

80-10-10 puts you in good company. I read that the Elizabethan Settlement establishing religion in England was supported by eighty percent the populace. Ten percent thought it too Catholic. It didn’t go far enough in eliminating the hated papist religion. Ten percent thought it went too far. They wanted to retain some of the rituals and music. It is impossible to please everyone, especially at a time of intense fear and hatred. Then, as now, some of the fear and hatred is deliberately created and maintained.

I use curriculums from folks who have different philosophies than my own because I believe those curriculums are stellar in how they teach that specific subject. No need for me to cut off my nose to spite my face.

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