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Less than a month to go before publication date for my new book—it’s a slightly nerve-wracking time as we wait for final reviews and pre-order numbers. (You might think that how the book actually sells, once people start reading it and recommending it to others, is more important, but in the weird world of bookselling, the orders placed before readers actually have access to the whole work are a huge deal.)
Anyway, two little pieces of news; the book was excerpted in the current issue of Scientific American, so hop over there and see if you like what you read.
And Barnes & Noble is running a preorder discount—order between 12/30 and 1/1 and get 25% off with the code PREORDER25. You have to have a B&N membership to get the discount, but signing up is free.
www.scientificamerican.com/article/excerpt-the-great-shadow-by-susan-wise-bauer/
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Pre-ordered! Congratulations on that starred Library Journal review!
Pre-ordered a while ago. Can't wait to read it!
Wonderful!
I have a lot of hope in and for this book. I look forward to reading it. Signed, a conservative Christian family practice provider and lay medical history student who holds this topic very dear, though with grief and passion.
I preordered in Canada 🍁 I loved the excerpt!
Pre-ordered the audiobook. Really looking forward to listening to it.
I preordered for my Kindle
The bookstore just emailed me this AM to get excited that it was coming soon! 😊
I preordered through Audible!
Preordered on Audible 😊
I preordered it at my local bookstore in Canada!!
Congratulations! So what’s the next book after this?
Dear Facebook folks, the news has been dreadful over the past week, and although I have a number of observations I want to make about our world, and about classical education, and about history, and about all of the things I study and write about, I have simply felt that at the moment, silence is the wisest strategy.
I have rarely regretted *not* saying something. As a person, that is. As a writer and business owner, I feel massive pressure to stay...visible.
But, I resist. We're well into Advent, and I'm looking forward to Christmas. It is time to sign off social media, and cook, and play games, and watch old movies, and feed animals.
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I so appreciate your wisdom and manner of life in general. Thank you living in the tension between living a 'quiet and peaceable life' and faithfully fulfilling your calling. Thank you for sharing your heart. Ours is an odd year as well, after several years of hard. My mother went Home in April after being diagnosed with congestive heart failure. My MIL went Home in October after suffering with Alzheimer's Dementia for several years. I am an only child and my husband was the child whom his mother depended on for decades, was local, continued to care for her affairs....and one whom she hurt deeply which makes grief very complicated. We sorted and sold my MIL's home last year and did the same with my mother's this fall. Then we bought a more comfortable home and have worked on it for months. While we are grateful, it is oh so bittersweet. And young adult children are struggling to find their wings. Thank you for continuing to provide honesty, authenticity, and kindness in your corner of this place. May you grieve, lament, rejoice, hope, and rest as much as your soul needs this Christmas.
I appreciate your message, as a former student of yours (many!) years ago at W&M. Our daughter's dear high school friend was one of the victims at Brown University Saturday and the world is very heavy indeed. May light break forth into the darkness.
I hope you enjoy your holiday. We have a LOT of family coming for JuleAften, Danish Smorrebrod. I won't know your gone because I will be up to my eyeballs in cooking and baking!! See you in the new year.
The messages of light shining in the darkness, of hope in a weary world, have been so welcome this year. Merry Christmas, dear Bauers, and I will await pictures of the Best. Burgers. Ever.
Merry Christmas! I think you are wise. This will be my first Christmas without both my parents and I am planning on hunkering down into the season and turning off the noise. The grief is hard enough without the worries and cares of this world crashing in all the time.
Merry Christmas! Make memories! Be present, sing deeply with Joy. These are hard times. But turn it off and recharge.
Wise woman. Maybe that’s why I follow you. 😘 Merry Christmas!🎄
Merry Christmas! Thank you for your rational, thoughtful voice. I certainly appreciate it.
Very wise and thank you. Merry Christmas.
Merry Christmas!!! You have been such an amazing guide for us in our homeschool journey!
Shalom to you and those near and dear to you.
I understand this completely
"An older, deeper pattern..." beautifully worded, and very historical of you. Wisdom of ages.
Thank you for all you have done, Susan! I highly value your willingness to speak the truth. Rest sounds wonderful and is sorely needed. Blessings!
Susan - this entry is probably the most thoughtful and sincere writing that I have read in a long time - thank you and have a Merry Christmas…
Merriest of Christmas wishes to you and your family! 💚❤️💚
Amen! Wonderful Christmas to you and your family!
Merry Christmas!!! I do believe you have the right idea!
Merry Christmas!!
Amen
Merry Christmas!
Enjoy peace and rest. God is still on the throne.
I love that!
Happy Holidays!
Merry Christmas!
I'm soliciting opinions.
We usually have prime rib and either shrimp or scallops for Christmas dinner.
The prime rib. Is. Now. $240. For six people.
I'm just not seeing it.
I put this out to the family and do you know what they said?
"Let's all just have burgers!"
FOR CHRISTMAS DINNER. I mean, can you imagine Scrooge saying to his door knocker, "I don't know if I imagined everything I saw, Marley, but I'm going to go have hamburgers with my family."
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If your family legitimately likes and wants burgers, that is fantastic. A lot of food focused holidays are less about the wishes of the people and more about the blunt observation of tradition. You may find that burgers are your new tradition, and everyone will look forward to it! Just make sure they weren’t joking. lol. I am also thinking of downsizing the food this season. We made a great lasagna last year, and I think we will go with that again. We used to have beef tenderloin each year. My husband adores it and looks forward to it, but the price has more than doubled and it was hard enough to spend $70 on just the meat for a meal two years ago. Best to you and yours no matter what is served at the Christmas table!
Two words: Turkey tenderloin.
You may be an undigested bit of Burger King, a blot of whopper sauce, a crumb of sesame bun, a fragment of underdone french fries. There's more of gravy than of grave about you, whatever you are!
We are the makers of manners! Have the best burgers EVER!!
I can't believe this post accumulated 318 comments in 7 hours. Actually I can believe it. Anyway. Beef wellington is easy and always feels really special. You don't need as much beef since you hide it in the puff pastry.
One year I opened my turkey to find it very spoiled. That year we ordered Chinese food. It was such a hit that we did it for at least five more years.
The food isn't what makes it Christmas dinner. The family around the table make it Christmas dinner. Don't let a fictional character from 150 years ago Mom shame you into what you think a Christmas dinner has to be.
Even if it’s just for one year, your family will always remember the fun of Burger Christmas!
Give the people what the people want and make the fanciest burgers ever made!
We have tacos for Christmas dinner since my adult kids requested it! And like someone else said, they’re tired of turkey/ham and the fixings. We all love Mexican so why not? Your kid’s idea of burgers is perfect😉
We have fondue on Christmas Eve. Christmas Day, we wake up to hash brown casserole in the crockpot and cinnamon rolls (both recipes from the WTM message boards back in the day) and in the afternoon it’s chili (red in the crockpot) and chicken chili. We ALL get to hangout together in or pjs all day (midnight Mass goers here) and no one spends the day in the kitchen.
We have frozen pizza. The horror! I cried one Christmas Because our many young children did not want a fancy dinner, no one ate it and I had to clean it up and was sad about it. Next year we had pizza. Everyone was happy. Very little cleaning.
Christmas dinner can be whatever you want! On Christmas Eve we do Chinese take-out. And usually our extended family Christmas celebrations look like soup and a sandwich platter, and chicken fingers eaten on Christmas plates!
One year, I made beautiful beef fillets for the adults and chicken-fried steaks for the kids. All the men in the family were looking over at the kids' food. So now, I make chicken-fried steak, everyone is happy, including my wallet.
Yes. The purpose is the fellowship right? Who cares if it's a turkey or prime rib or hamburgers. Make it special by being a fancy dinner with three forks for hamburgers.
I mean, I am a fan of lasagna so that no one is standing in the kitchen and we all get excellent naps. 😆
A pork tenderloin would also go well with shrimp or scallops. But honestly, if all they want is hamburgers I see no reason not to unless you really want to do something more elaborate. It's a family holiday, just because tradition tells us we should pull out all the stops for Christmas dinner doesn't mean we have to do it that way.
When our kids were little, we found that a formal Christmas dinner just didn't fit us. The kids wanted to snack and play with their new toys and build their new Lego sets more than they wanted to get dressed up and sit at a formal meal. And, especially with the layout of the house we have had for the past couple of decades, a formal dinner means the cook(s) is/are stuck in a separate room away from the fun of watching/playing with the kids. A far less fancy and formal meal works for us, especially if it can start slow cooking the night before so Christmas Day prep is much less. I read your post to my husband, who said, "Burgers sound awesome!" So I vote that you do burgers if that is what your people want. That being said, your feelings matter too, and if it is fun and exciting to you to cook a complex meal and sit down at a fancy table, that is completely reasonable. Your kids are old enough to help make that happen for their mom. A compromise might be to do a more formal meal, though maybe not prime rib (because ouch!), Christmas Eve. We did a more formal sit-down meal a few times on CE, so maybe that would work for your family.
We do roast beef, peas, Yorkshire pudding and twice baked potatoes. We will pay a bit more for a good cut of meat --- but not $240
We’re doing pot roast!
My parents , we had oyster stew, chili, and pizza. On Christmas Day, my mom’s side, was pot luck dinners, every one brought their favorite foods, meat was turkey, goose, pheasant, and ham.
We normally do a prime rib, but are seeing the same thing, $$$$$ so we are thinking homemade lasagna, it feels special enough and it’s easier to make a vegetarian option. Go for the burgers, give the people what they want! Use some of the savings to buy a new game to play as a family!
A burger bar would be so fun. Restaurants sell bougie burgers just as expensive as prime rib these days.
Thanksgiving is about the food. Christmas is about opening presents and putting stuff together and reading the books and playing the games and watching the shows and laughing and talking on the phone to people in other parts of the country (or world) and basically doing whatever the heck you want to do whenever the heck you want to do it. The food can be whatever you want it to be. I don't know how it happened, but 3 or 4 years ago my husband glommed onto a standing rib roast (prime rib) for Christmas dinner. He loves making it, we love eating it, so it has stuck as the latest tradition. Unless he can't find a decent cut at any of the local stores, I'm sure we'll have it again this year, no matter the cost. In past years we've run the gamut, though. Take out BBQ, homemade pizzas, smoked ham, surf and turf, you name it, we've had it for Christmas dinner!
We have pizza and have for 22 years now. 🤷🏻♀️. It started when we were young and both working at different churches. We came home from Christmas services and slept all afternoon. Whatever we planned didn’t get made and instead we pulled the frozen pizza in off the porch (Alaska) and now it’s tradition.

